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Sunday, April 28, 2013

Crystals and Gemstones

In my last post, I briefly touched upon gemstones and crystals to help aid shielding. There are so many excellent and informative resources to help you find the right ones for you. Certain gemstones and crystals will resonate with your energy only, so I highly recommend heading to your local healing and alternative shop to find the right one for you. It isn't always easy. In my case, I'm several hours from one of these gems (see what I did there?), so I do most of my buying online. I absolutely love and whole heartedly recommend http://www.crystal-cure.com/. They are SO knowledgeable, have an extensive selection, and are true healers. You can request them to attune to your energy and choose the proper stones and crystals for you. I can instantly feel a connection with their stones, where as I don't always from other sources. Where ever you do your buying, just make sure you do your homework and trust your instincts. Keep in mind that some stones and crystals will bond to you and you to it and that can feel intense. I know several people who like to "cleanse" their gemstones. Please be aware that water, sunlight, and extreme temperature shifts can destroy your stones and crystals. When I feel like mine need to be cleared, I meditate with them, infusing them with my energy and allowing their energy to touch me too.

When you get your gemstones, keep them with you. Just by holding, wearing, or keeping them with you (like in your pocket or in your bra) can positively effect your energy by raising your vibrations. I'm not kidding about the bra part. On particularly challenging days or when I know I'll be in a stressful or crowded situation, I keep them in my bra, against my skin to increase energy healing. There are so many gemstones and crystals that help protect and sooth empaths from the barrage of feelings we are subject to every day. If you find I haven't mentioned your favorite gemstone or crystal, please feel free to tell me about it in the comments. Now let's get to the fun stuff!

Rose quartz is very good for empaths because it sooths and heals the heart chakra and has a strong and steady energy to keep you grounded. (Remember grounding pulls the negative energies away from you into the earth to be converted into healing energy.)

Black tourmaline is a powerful stone. It should only be used by healers, but will push all negative energy away. (Most empaths are healers in one form or another.)

Amazonite will help balance emotions and also balances feminine and masculine energy. It is considered good luck as well. (Which we all know we could use!)

Citrine is an empath's dream and I highly suggest them. Citrine is unique in that it doesn't need cleaning because it repels instead of absorbing negative energies. Citrine also relieves depression and mood swings. It opens the mind to new thoughts, helps with dream recall, and increases self esteem. Told you it was an empath's dream!

Obsidian, any type, is also good for empaths. The different types repel negative energies, balance emotions, and ground you.

Amethyst is an interesting gemstone. It increases psychic ability while protecting the wearer. It will help with dreams and negativity within the home, but needs plenty of sun.

Lepidolite is one of my favorites as it's considered a power and peace stone. It will enhance the energies of other stones while promoting peace, sleep, luck, and love.

One gemstone that came to me unexpectedly was Turritella Agate. It promotes inner stability and I consider it the bravery stone and protects you against danger. It lives up to its name and I greatly recommend it!

The last one I will mention tonight are Lemurian Seed Crystals. These crystals are very special, strong, and absolutely essential when meditating. They have tell tale edges with horizontal striping. It's said that these crystals are infused with the ancient wisdom of the Lemurian people. There's so much information on Lemurian crystals and the Lemurian people, I recommend you do some research with an open mind and open heart. To elaborate, I will tell you my own experience with my Lemurian crystal.

I felt the moment it was delivered. I had several crystals and gemstones due to arrive over a 4 day period, but I just knew the moment it arrived. As soon as I held it, my head felt full, buzzing, and almost dizzy. I had to put it down as I was not prepared for the instant connection and strength. I put it down for later, but found I couldn't take my eyes off it, so I put it in my pocket. This didn't last long. I had to touch it. It felt like obsession the draw was so strong. Sitting down, I calmed myself and breathed deeply, like I would to meditate. I held it in my palm and ran my thumb up the ridges and was floored by what I saw. The things I saw are mine and private for now. Maybe some day I'll share them, but suffice to say it opened my eyes completely, opened my heart, and I know my spirit is still singing. It changed everything and it is in part why I started this blog. I truly hope it stretches across the distances and finds those who need it.

Still have questions? Want to learn more? Connect with me directly https://www.facebook.com/dayinthelifeofanempath Blog updates, inspirations, conversation, and news about Empath School and the courses available for download. Hope to see you there!

In love and light;
~A

42 comments:

  1. Thank you Andrea! my gf is an empath who is scared to find out more about herself and how she can help herself so am doing the research for now to try and help her until shes confident enough to do it on her own :)Your blog is really helpful :D

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    1. Just learned what and who I really am and was born to be recently after 31yrs of thinking everyone else in the world was just like me or I was normal had built up so much negativity I had completely lost myself or was right on the edge it got a few crystals listed and in less than a day of cleansing and having my stones I feel indescribably better there's no way to say thank you enough for this page

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    2. Just learned what and who I really am and was born to be recently after 31yrs of thinking everyone else in the world was just like me or I was normal had built up so much negativity I had completely lost myself or was right on the edge it got a few crystals listed and in less than a day of cleansing and having my stones I feel indescribably better there's no way to say thank you enough for this page

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  2. Thank you Lucian! If you ever want to see certain content, please let me know. I feel for your girlfriend. It's not an easy path, but it is amazingly wonderful and beautiful if embraced. Walk in the light and let it guide you.
    Namaste;
    ~A

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  3. Andrea- I was told at a crystal show that I needed the Red Lemurian Seed Crystal and so my boyfriend bought it for me. I was actually scared of it because I knew it would be powerful but I started to show my love for it. This was only 3 days ago by the way. I found out yesterday that I am an empath and I am connecting so many things in my life that have been unanswered. Thank you for your blog post! I am just new to all of this so I am staying open to learning more.

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  4. Andrea- I just read your comments with Lucian and if you have any advice for me it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks again!

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    1. Hello BJ. Thank you for your comments! It means the world to me that you've taken time to read and digest the information. I certainly hope it helps you. My best advice is to learn to shield yourself and learn to ground yourself properly. Everyone has their own techniques. I describe the ones that have worked not only the best for me, but I get the most "push" to tell people about. Your shield is a part of you, it's an extension of your soul and your soul is directly fed by the light and love of God the Creator/The Universe (whatever you are comfortable calling it according to your religion or lack there of). The shield will keep away everything you program it to and only let in what you tell it to. It's very simple, just takes some mental will. Grounding connects you with the Earth and pulls negative emotions away from you. It's as simple as taking a barefoot walk across the grass, or touching a plant, jumping in the ocean, or taking a salt bath. I'm always happy to help. You can mostly find me on Empath Support Group on Facebook. You can private message me if you want to as well. Take care BJ and welcome to your gifts!
      In light and loves;
      ~A

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  5. A,
    Thank you so much for this great info...I've been struggling my entire life being called "too sensitive", & caring too much, & being a man I've struggled more so than many with society's expectations of being a man while cherishing my sensitive side, but not understanding why I was so easily affected by everything from clutter, to violence, to unfairness, etc... Its only recently my loving fiance' made the connection that I may indeed be an Empath. She a Healer in many ways & is committed to helping me explore this possible revelation, but from what she knows, as well as what Ive read regarding having Empathic leanings, unless you learn (or innately know) how control these gifts, they will control you, which is where I am a lot of the time with roiling emotions that I cant explain going on inside me...you've convinced me to pursue these stones & crystals, but I wonder how logistically one can carry these? Can they be made into jewelry? Are there any of the aforementioned stones/crystals that shouldn't be carried together? What about sizes? Is BIG better? Or does size not matter in terms of strength?

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    1. Hello jmd32953 and thank you for commenting. Here's the skinny on gemstones and crystals - they are just like people! Some like to be together, some don't like certain ones, and some like to be left alone. The gemstone and crystal will tell you. It will feel different and draw your attention. I often carry mine in my pocket (left pocket for abundance and luck). When I'm really having a hard time, I hold them against my skin. That could mean I meditate with them in my hand or hold them for a while. You may giggle, but size doesn't matter with gemstones, crystals is another matter. Some may argue with me, but that's my experience and how the gemstones feel to me. Shape does matter though! (Sacred geometry and all.) For me, vogel and pointed wands are the strongest. I don't resonate with pyramids or egg shapes. My friend, however, LOVES pyramids, but not the egg shape. It's all about personal energy and how you connect with it. You will know when you see it if you let it happen.
      If you can, I heavily suggest you go to a store that sells and respects gemstones and crystals so you can feel what I'm talking about. You will feel the ones that call to you if you are grounded and open to it. You will see one that catches your eye or you will feel like you have to touch it, hold it.
      I sincerely hope this helped and answered your questions. Namaste.
      In light and love;
      ~A

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  6. I am seeking some advice, for my young ones. Crystal have always fascinated me, not just because of the fact its me name, but I could feel the power from them like a kick in the ribs since very early on. until the past year, I knew not nor did I understand what was "wrong with me". I've been on psych meds, and they've blocked some of my uncontrolled abilities. I know its from my belated papa (maternal). Me mom also has the abilities to see but has spoken only of it as I was coming more into mine. Papa, was Cherokee, Comanche, and Apache. So much so, me mom could claim Native American rights! Me dad, of his family I know little. there's Irish and/or Scottish there. So, I'm a conflict to myself! Now, as for me kids...my 12 yr old hasn't completed coming of age. she's also got abilities, but I'm unsure if that wee bit will change. My 3yr old son, however...can see spirits as I, feels their presence, there's a wee child in our home. I felt her when we moved in. but, me son was at first OK playing with the child. Noe, 2am each night, he's in the living room jumping on the couch where he feels safe. described a new entity, an older male. he doesn't play nice. and enjoys scaring me son. I've exhausted all I know to do. I'm in N.C.and wiccans aren't highly regarded. so I feel alone trying to save me son! plz, he's so young...what can I weave together and with which stone to guard over him? I'm worried...spells frightened the child spirit. the elder is more...aggrevated. All help and support welcome, as I've none here. Blessed Be, Crystal

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    1. Hello Crystal. Thank you for your comments and for reading the blog. I have to clarify, I am not a Wiccan so I don't perform spells or practice that religion. I can however, tell you what course of action I take according to my beliefs. I would call upon Arch Angel Michael and Arch Angel Gabriel. Ask AA Michael to banish any malevolent spirits from your home and ask AA Gabriel to protect your son. AA Michael is a warrior and AA Gabriel is a protector, especially of children. Pray to them and know that they will do this for you. There will be some residual left behind, but know it's only in your son's mind because it's a scary thing to have gone through. The last thing you want to do is give it strength or allow it to return by continuing to give it your attention on any level. We went through something similar in my home. After asking the AAs for help, I bought my daughter a dream catcher and placed an agate and a chrysoprase on above her door on the molding. It took a little while for her subconscious to catch on and realize that the threat was gone, but the feelings and energy changed right away. I sincerely hope this helps. Namaste.
      In light and love;
      ~A

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  7. Hello Andrea,
    My name is Raquel. i am kind of lost and confused in this whole Empathy situation. I am told by many people that i truly have a gift for feeling things and knowing too much about people when i am around them. I can sense every emotion from just about anyone near me. I leave them speechless when I explain what I can sense. I just do not know what else to do sometimes it overwhelming. I just need some advice and direction. I do not know if I am an Empath but I would like to know, so people can quit calling me weird crazy and ultimately a witch.

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    1. Hello Raquel. Have you looked at any of the other blog posts? There's one called 30 Traits of an Empath that will help clear up some of your questions and there's another called New Empaths which will help get you going. It covers shielding, meditation, and grounding.
      I'm almost ready to launch a school for empaths with courses that walk you through everything you need to know for the experience level you have. Please keep in touch and let me know how you get on. I know you can do this! Namaste.
      In love and light;
      ~A

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  8. Thank you beautiful treasure for this blog and this post. I am an empath and my younger brother is as well. I am putting together some crystals for his birthday - so I can introduce him to the power. I also connected with the need to seek out the lemurian Seed Crystals. I cannot wait to get one for myself and for my partner - who I am very sure is a star Seed.

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    1. Thank you so much for reading and commenting :) I'm honored.

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  9. Just stumbled upon your page, can't tell you how glad I am.
    I've always been able to sense how others are feeling and even to project my emotions into a room of people (I can quite literally be the life of a party). However, as life got busier I somehow managed to forget this side of me. It's only been in the last few days where I've done some serious soul searching after crumpling in a heap that I've realised pretty much everything I've been feeling is a direct result of my unchecked abilities.
    I work as a social worker in the mental health field, so you can just imagine the 'stuff' I've been taking on without realising it. Its also finally given me a more logical answer than medicine ever managed to when my Mum was having chemotherapy last year. Noone believed me that I was experiencing her symptoms in real time, to the point where I was actually having to take some of her meds to counteract the side effects I was having!
    Time to get back in connection with my esoteric side again and begin healing what I've neglected these past few years. Definitely raiding the crystal shop in town for their entire Citrine supply, sounds like just the thing I need right now.
    Namaste, you have my most sincere thanks.

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    1. Hi Mark! I'm very happy you found me and I've helped you!! If you're so inclined, I have a group on Facebook that delves a little...okay a lot... deeper into our gifts and how to control them before they control us. It's called The Bridge: Center for Spiritual Sciences and Education. Great group of people from all over the world :)
      ~A

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  10. thanks for this.... when I found out that I was an empath (a week ago) , I cried... can't describe the recognition after all those years... "panic attacks" while doctor kept saying I'm fine etc.... gonna get crystals in an hour!, thank you!! greetings Timo

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    1. So happy to have helped you! Thank you for reading the blog :)

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  11. Hi Andrea ,
    Thank You for your Blog - You have given me great insight into being an empath.

    I'm not weird - YAY! :-)
    I have been treated for Bipolar Disorder for the last 10 years and I have only just discovered that I am an Empath.
    The day I found out , when i got home from work i was my normal self and after an hour or so I felt completly drained . My knees felt weak , I felt nauseous and all I wanted to do was cry!!! And I did!
    Now I just need to protect and strengthen myself myself. As for grounding , My Mom cannot understand why I never wear shoes - I literally hate them! Well I love having them in my cupboard but never on my feet. Now I understand why.

    I'm on my way to look for a crystal this weekend however I am scared for some reason. Anticipating the visit to that store but just worried about something.

    Look forward to more insightful writing by you.

    Have a fantastic day!

    Sher

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    1. Sher I'm so happy you're finding peace with this. AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME!
      ~Andrea

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  12. Thank you for this, it helps a lot.
    So does the size of the crystal or gemstone matter?
    Will bigger ones work more than smaller ones?

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    1. Only to you. For some, a tiny crystal makes all the difference. Others like them larger. Go with what feels right to you.
      ~Andrea

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  13. I just want to thank you so much for sharing this information and really it's amazing to see the empath community get together and express what we've been going through. I'm an empath and still learning about what I have. I sense energies of MANY sorts which drives me near to insanity some days. I can feel dense patches of air with emotions attached to them, I have woken up at night due to the startling shift in energy, I can sense the inner soul within most people and can feel their pure intentions. This has been draining me for years; I have suffered severe insomnia and anxiety to the point where I became nearly agoraphobic.
    Then I got a rock and mineral kit for my science class and everything changed! I always thought believing in crystal healing and such was bogus pseudoscience until one day. I felt amazing attraction to my obsidian chunk. I would literally stare at it and feel this energy bond between us. So I cleansed it, did some research on it's usage in the metaphysic world and decided to meditate with it on my forehead. I felt it's energy through my head it was so amazing. I decided to wear it as a necklace and wear it around a few people who drain me and make me unbearably sad and angry. I seriously felt so protected. I felt like the person I truly am. I was happy and unaffected by the environment. Then I wore it again out in public where there were large crowds and loud noise. I was smiling! I was enjoying myself and the others around me. I was calm and enjoying every person around me. I can't believe it.
    I wanted to rant and share my story to help others. I went from compete skeptic to feeling an attraction to obsidian thankfully due to my science class. I feel like it's energy was meant for me and I'm so blessed. I'm going to a metaphysical rock shop next week to see if I can have any other attractions.
    Sorry for my long story but I had to tell someone.

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    1. Please don't be sorry. I love reading stories just like yours :)
      ~Andrea

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  14. Hallo - Es ist gut, wie interessante Inhalte zu lesen. Ich stimme mit vielem, was hier geschrieben steht, und ich werde wiederkommen.
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  15. Sounds Interesting... It is very informative and I Like this Post....


    Gemstones Power

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  16. Hi! I'm so glad to have come across your blog. To be honest, I still wonder sometimes if I'm an empath or not because I don't always pick up on other people's emotions or if they're being truthful or not. But there are times that I feel overwhelmed with negative feelings and ailments that I'm sure aren't mine. What's more common for me is people spilling out their problems to me, including people I just met, which is kind of strange sometimes. I usually feel drained after. A friend who's an empath said something about my guard being better than hers. I'm not entirely sure if that's the case or because I've always been detached from my emotions until recently. It hasn't been easy for me, especially coupled with bouts of depression.
    I've read that it's not advisable to go for meditation if depressed so I've been looking up crystals. I've gotten a necklace with a rough citrine pendant but I haven't tried wearing it much. I'm considering getting another gem or crystal. Does it matter if the gem is cut and polished or if it's raw? Or if it's worn as certain type of jewelry? Thank you so much!

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    1. I teach meditation workshops and classes, so I'm a little biased. I have never read, outside of someone else's opinion, that meditation is "bad" for people suffering depression. All I know is that it has helped me with depression a lot. Same with yoga. My clinician actually suggested it as a way to help rewire my brain using neuroplasticity.
      The cut, or not, of the stone only matters to you. Go with what feels good or you're attracted to.
      ~A

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  17. Andrea- thank you for all the info and I see you talking about a shield but if at a young age you had some difficulties and hardship and let's say trauma and you forced you walls and blockades how can you break that down I guess I'm asking how do you lower your shield and maybe I'm odd but I do have to say I love my labradorite it's what I saw and left at a shop and made my boyfriend turn the car around and drive 2.5 hours back so that I could pick it up

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    1. Allow yourself the time to properly heal and forgive. Don't force it and expect it to happen all at once. Allow yourself the freedom and time to bloom in a way that works for your energy.
      ~A

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  18. Thanks! As new information comes forward, I often update posts.
    ~A

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  21. Good to know about Crystals and Gemstones & your experiences with it. You may also like blog about Gemstones: wholesalecabochons

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  22. Hi, I read your blog and was impressed by the value it offers. My sister has begun to study gemstone benefits. It is amazing to know the benefits that they can bring to our life. I am myself keen to get a gem that is suitable to my horoscope sign so that I too can begin to benefit from their amazing powers. Reading your blog has really convinced me that I need to get the right gemstone for me at the earliest.

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  23. Hi! How do you clear crystals?

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  24. Hello! Its so great to find this blog, I haven't explored at all besides this page that I was brought to when I searched 'crystals for empaths' but I can't wait to look at the rest of your blog! I have an extremely difficult time shielding myself. I have to put in a TON of effort to do it and I feel like if my mind or energy isn't continually focused on building my shield then a lot of energy comes in. I find if I am thinking about someone else at work it also amplifies it. I have a citrine necklace that I have not taken off at work pretty much since I got it a month ago on etsy. I have some black tourmaline. I am wondering if anyone else has this shielding problem?? If there is any specific stone that is better for shielding?

    Thanks so much!
    Nicole

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    1. I'm new to realizing I am an empath by the way and new to crystals as well! I just have to say I think its so cool to read your comments like you have a friend that loves one shape and you respond better to another, it just helps me realize that I will know whats best for me through trial and error as time goes on and stuff!

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